Let's Get Visible® Podcast · Season 1, Episode 5

The Power Of Saying No

Why saying yes to everything means saying no to the things that are meant for you.


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Welcome to Episode 5

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Today I'm talking about the power of saying no, a topic that confuses many small business owners. When we launch our own services or start selling our own products, we can go into "yes" mode: saying yes to everything and every opportunity, because we don't know how to say no.

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In this solo episode I talk about being a lifelong people pleaser, what saying yes to everything really costs, and how to decide which opportunities, clients and collaborations are genuinely right for you.

In this episode

What truly lights you upThe flow-on effectMaking the best choicesChanging your pathCreating expectationsReading the fine print

"When you say yes to things that aren't meant for you, you're also saying no to the things that are."

Dorz Brown

From the episode

Confessions of a people pleaser

I'm raising my hand here and admitting that for most of my life, I've been a people pleaser. Even when someone's suggestion or offer would put me on the back foot, I'd still say yes. Looking back, that's a little insane.

When you say yes to things that aren't meant for you, you're also saying no to the things that are.

Every choice has a flow-on effect

Whatever you decide, a yes or a no, it will have a flow-on effect on other parts of your life. So before you say yes to the next offer, client or collaborator, think about the impact it will have, and whether you'd be better off saying no.

Why I still say no

It's the reason The Visibility Accelerator™ is by application, with a maximum of five clients at a time. Saying no to more means the clients I do work with get my full attention.

Doreen Brown, host of the Let's Get Visible podcast

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About Dorz


I'm Doreen (Dorz) Brown, SEO and visibility consultant and founder of Let's Get Visible®. On this podcast I share real conversations about business, marketing and getting seen, including the lessons I've learnt the hard way.

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